Start From yourself
Like the Title said, Start from yourself. A lot of people in this world are pushed into a depression. A lot of people think that they “cannot do stuff” but they really want to achieve it. From there, they started to lost their value of life. What is this Value of life ?..
Simple. Take it like this, God created you to be a perfect human being, and somewhat from nowhere people started to make a “bling bling” words like “nobody’s perfect”. Think of that words and please think it over once again.
You are deminishing your self-value as a “perfect” person in this world ! We are actually perfect and WE ARE INFACT ! you don’t believe ? okay let’s test it this way. If someone came to you and hit your nose with their Shoe what will you feel ? Do you feel happy ? just okay ? or do you want to take revenge of that man (i don’t teach people to take any revenge, this is only example).
Think it over, why do you even chase that man over a mile just to get the “payback” ?. Ha ! it means you don’t want to be treated that way. take another example.
you are and employee who works in a “Company X”. You work so hard untill you are getting exhausted ! somehow your friend said that you are useless ! can you accept that? NO ! Thats it ! your self-value is bigger than those words flying through you ears !
If that so, why do you feel so desperate ? why don’t you see out-there, there will be a biggest challange of my life !. RESPECT YOURSELF ! do Not think that “oh my gosh, i cannot do that!”. LAME ! you can do that and i can ensure you that if you DO something YOU DON’T LIKE ! it means you are pushing yourself into a greater character !
First thing to do :
1. Know your Value ! This is the key of success and without this you are like a soldier with no weapon walking on a battlefield and 1 shot flies to your head, i can ensure you dead. THIS IS IMPORTANT ! Respect yourself as a human being, Think Positive ! Don’t let people mock you or Make you feel bad ! You are the king of your life !
Another Example is, how about a $50 ? do you want a $50 ? of course you do ! but what if i step on the dollar and i jump on it untill its dirty. Will u still take the $50 ? heck-yeah ! THATS IT ! why ? because it’s $50 ! YOU are the $50 ! don’t care how many band words flying through you ears ! you will keep moving !
2. Accept your Value ! hmmm…most people does not relize that they are facing themself, once they know they got a problem, they start to find solution. If they can’t find it, oh well no problem my shotgun will do, im gonna put the barrel on my head and BOOM ! i kill myself for good ! NO ! that is most people will do if they are desperate, You are NOT ! Accept the fact if YOU ARE LIKE THAT ! DO NOT CARE FOR PEOPLE ! CAre for yourself. Accept it !
3. Increase your Value ! Be a Hero for yourself ! dont be a coward ! increase your value start for looking any opportunities in your life. Start doing the thing you are lazy to do to become Diligently doing that. Belive me!
4. BELIEVE your value ! By believing, you are accepting yourself to enter to a new Zone, new Era, new Revolution to change yourself to become a new person !
FORGET: Whatever that makes you uncomfortable !
ASK: How do i increase my value so people will like me ?
DO: Write down the things you want to change inside you, maybe behavior and stuff ? give the specific detail !
REMEMBER: Your relationship will people can be as healthy as YOU ARE !
